Six years of sobriety has radically shifted John Mayer‘s strategy to relationships and relationship.
The musician opened up about his previous failed romances within the new episode of the Name Her Daddy podcast, sharing that lately he does not “date that a lot.” He defined, “Relationship is now not a codified exercise for me, it doesn’t exist in a form of…it’s not patterned anymore. I do not actually date. I do not suppose that I’ve to, to be fairly sincere. I stop ingesting, like, six years in the past, so I don’t have the liquid braveness. I simply have dry braveness.” Mayer determined to get sober after struggling a six-day hangover following Drake‘s thirtieth birthday celebration. “It’s a must to be sincere,” he mentioned of constructing that call. “It’s a must to be actually, obviously sincere.”
The “Your Physique Is a Wonderland” singer additionally owned as much as his dangerous fame up to now, telling host Alex Cooper, “Look, the elephant within the room is that I am on a present that caters to ladies, and I’ve a few nameplates on me, like ‘lothario’ and ‘womanizer,’ and I feel that’s what that’s.” He continued, “However I feel individuals can be stunned to know that it was much less me going like, you already know the meme of the man behind the tree? It was much less this [Mayer rubs his hands together] and extra like this [Mayer looks around in disbelief], ‘Me?’ As a result of it was all the time set forth to me that, like, that should not occur.” Mayer added that rising up he was “made to imagine” that “approval” from ladies was a fleeting factor and any romantic curiosity proven him was an “accident,” so he realized to “capitalize” on it. “And so I felt very deeply when anyone preferred me. Very deeply,” he mentioned.
Whereas on tour selling his new album Sob Rock earlier this 12 months at a cease in Las Vegas, the Grammy winner instructed his viewers that he additionally needs individuals would cease asking when he’ll lastly quiet down. “’When are you gonna discover somebody? You don’t wish to have youngsters, do you?’ What the fuck have I carried out in my life to speak that I don’t wish to have youngsters?…What are you speaking about?” he mentioned in a video posted to Instagram. “I’m doing superb as a result of the left aspect of my mattress is only a row of pillows. I sleep subsequent to a row of pillows. That stack of pillows doesn’t resent or hate me or carry me down.” However Mayer added on a optimistic observe, “I’m having time. I’ll meet anyone. And once I do, it is going to be additive and superior and nice, however till then, I’m going to be simply superb.”
