When Maureen Dougall met up together with her son for lunch in December 2017, she observed he was wanting run down and had misplaced a little bit of weight.
Noting his mom’s concern, Piers, from Suffolk, instructed Maureen that docs had put it right down to stress however that he was simply not feeling his common self.
‘Now, 5 years on, I look again at that dialog and I want and pray and beg that I might do it over again; that I might inform him to go and see one other physician instantly, to get a second opinion proper then and there,’ Maureen tells Metro.co.uk as she remembers the deat of her son, aged 47.
Piers had been affected by a backache, indigestion and and upset abdomen for 2 months, and it solely obtained worse and worse. He would get up from ache in the course of the night time and misplaced 4 stone within the following 4 months.
Piers (pictured together with his mom Maureen and his two kids) died in December 2019 after he was identified with pancreatic most cancers
‘I feel, in my coronary heart of hearts, I knew it was severe however I used to be nonetheless devastated when, after lastly being referred for a CAT scan, he was identified with Stage 4 pancreatic most cancers in April 2018,’ Maureen recalled.
Pancreatic most cancers is usually identified late and within the UK the 5 yr survival charge for it’s simply 7 per cent. Except for the signs Piers skilled, warning indicators to look out for are modifications to your poo, lack of urge for food and jaundice.
‘Once I first heard the information, I rushed to Piers’s facet. “We’ll discover a remedy,” I instructed him. “There’ll be a miracle”,’ she stated.
Piers (pictured baking together with his son) was initially instructed he was most probably burdened when he first started to really feel unwell
Maureen says the grief of dropping her son Piers (pictured left together with his brother Alex, proper)has been ‘shattering’
‘However Piers checked out me significantly. “It’s a must to know that I gained’t be cured, the docs have been positive,” he stated firmly. “All I would like is to remain alive for so long as potential for my spouse Katherine and the kids.’
‘His phrases devastated me, however I used to be so pleased with his bravery.
‘We heard of a trial beginning on the Royal Marsden Hospital however once more, the tumours have been too superior. ‘If he’d been identified earlier, there would have been an opportunity,’ the advisor instructed us.
‘These phrases fueled the anger in me. He ought to have had that probability. However as a substitute, Piers’ GP had believed he was too younger for his signs to be the tell-tale indicators of most cancers, which is why it had taken so lengthy for him to be referred.’
‘Greater than 45 out of each 100 individuals identified with pancreatic most cancers are over 75. It’s way more frequent in older individuals. However there are all the time individuals who defy the chances, and on this event, that particular person was Piers. Within the worst manner.’
Piers handed away in December 2019, surrounded by household in a hospice in Bury St Edmunds.
‘”I’m so fortunate, Mum,” he instructed me at some point. “I’ve had a superb life. Please don’t remorse something.”
‘The grief was shattering. No mum ought to ever lose her son. The one factor I might do was to attempt to discover among the bravery Piers had proven and get via the times, one by one.’
Maureen is now decided to ensure individuals unknowingly residing with pancreatic most cancers are identified as quick as potential.
‘I go on the signs of the merciless illness as usually as I can – when a person got here spherical to take a look at my kitchen and talked about he had a sore again, I made him a cup of tea and instructed him about Piers. He promised he’d go straight to his physician.
‘I would like individuals to be checked earlier – identified earlier. I would like individuals to dwell so long as potential. And above all, I would like no-one to undergo what my household has.’
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